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Below is a list of some of the references that the Hadith makes to Aisha's wedding to Muhammad

The list below does not contain everytime that this subject of Aisha marrying Muhammad is mentioned in the Hadiths [1]. Firstly I tried to stick to what are known as the sahih Hadith where the Arabic word sahih means it is trusted as authentic. Secondly a lot of the Hadiths are just the same one repeated but have a different chain of transmitters so by giving every example would be just a case of repeating the same one again and again. I have used the website Sunnah.com for the given Hadiths and have given the reference that they use to label that particular Hadith.

What all these Hadiths clearly repeatably show is that Muhammad took the child Aisha as a bride at the age of six or seven and then consummated the marriage when she was only nine and still playing with her dolls. A lot of Muslim scholars have tried to get around this by various arguments but all they are doing by denying the Hadiths are saying what they are clearly saying is confirming that having a bride of nine is simply wrong.

 

 

Narrated `Aisha:

that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that `Aisha remained with the Prophet for nine years (i.e. till his death).

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 5134

In-book reference : Book 67, Hadith 70

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 65

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Narrated 'Urwa:

The Prophet asked Abu Bakr for `Aisha's hand in marriage. Abu Bakr said "But I am your brother." The Prophet said, "You are my brother in Allah's religion and His Book, but she (Aisha) is lawful for me to marry."

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 5081

In-book reference : Book 67, Hadith 19

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 18

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Narrated Aisha:

The Prophet engaged me when I was a girl of six (years). We went to Medina and stayed at the home of Bani-al-Harith bin Khazraj. Then I got ill and my hair fell down. Later on my hair grew (again) and my mother, Um Ruman, came to me while I was playing in a swing with some of my girl friends. She called me, and I went to her, not knowing what she wanted to do to me. She caught me by the hand and made me stand at the door of the house. I was breathless then, and when my breathing became Allright, she took some water and rubbed my face and head with it. Then she took me into the house. There in the house I saw some Ansari women who said, "Best wishes and Allah's Blessing and a good luck." Then she entrusted me to them and they prepared me (for the marriage). Unexpectedly Allah's Apostle came to me in the forenoon and my mother handed me over to him, and at that time I was a girl of nine years of age.

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 3894

In-book reference : Book 63, Hadith 119

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 5, Book 58, Hadith 234

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[Nearly the same wording in as the above example.

Grade: Sahih

Reference : Sunan Ibn Majah 1876

In-book reference : Book 9, Hadith 32

English translation : Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1876

And

Reference : Sahih Muslim 1422a

In-book reference : Book 16, Hadith 81

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 8, Hadith 3309

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Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:

 

The Messenger of Allah married me when I was seven or six. When we came to Medina, some women came. according to Bishr's version: Umm Ruman came to me when I was swinging. They took me, made me prepared and decorated me. I was then brought to the Messenger of Allah, and he took up cohabitation with me when I was nine. She halted me at the door, and I burst into laughter.

 

Abu Dawud said: That is to say: I menstruated, and I was brought in a house, and there were some women of the Ansari in it. They said: With good luck and blessing. The tradition of one of them has been included in the other.

Grade: Sahih (Al-Albani)

Reference : Sunan Abi Dawud 4933

In-book reference : Book 43, Hadith 161

English translation : Book 42, Hadith 4915

 

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Narrated Hisham's father:

Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married `Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consumed that marriage when she was nine years old.

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 3896

In-book reference : Book 63, Hadith 121

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 5, Book 58, Hadith 236

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Narrated Hisham's father:

Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married `Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consumed that marriage when she was nine years old.

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 3896

In-book reference : Book 63, Hadith 121

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 5, Book 58, Hadith 236

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Narrated `Aisha:

The Prophet was screening me with his Rida' (garment covering the upper part of the body) while I was looking at the Ethiopians who were playing in the courtyard of the mosque. (I continued watching) till I was satisfied. So you may deduce from this event how a little girl (who has not reached the age of puberty) who is eager to enjoy amusement should be treated in this respect.

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 5236

In-book reference : Book 67, Hadith 169

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 7, Book 62, Hadith 163

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Narrated `Aisha:

I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah's Messenger used to enter (my dwelling place) they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for `Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.) (Fath-ul-Bari page 143, Vol.13)

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 6130

In-book reference : Book 78, Hadith 157

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 8, Book 73, Hadith 151

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'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Allah's Apostle married her when she was seven years old, and he was taken to his house as a bride when she was nine, and her dolls were with her; and when he (the Holy Prophet) died she was eighteen years old.

Reference : Sahih Muslim 1422c

In-book reference : Book 16, Hadith 83

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 8, Hadith 3311

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Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu’minin: When the Apostle of Allah (peace_be_upon_him) arrived after the expedition to Tabuk or Khaybar (the narrator is doubtful), the draught raised an end of a curtain which was hung in front of her store-room, revealing some dolls which belonged to her. He asked: What is this? She replied: My dolls. Among them he saw a horse with wings made of rags, and asked: What is this I see among them? She replied: A horse. He asked: What is this that it has on it? She replied: Two wings. He asked: A horse with two wings? She replied: Have you not heard that Solomon had horses with wings? She said: Thereupon the Apostle of Allah (peace be_upon_him) laughed so heartily that I could see his molar teeth.

[Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 41, Number 4914]

 

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It was narrated that ‘Aishah said: “The Messenger of Allah married me when I was six years old. Then we came to Al-Madinah and settled among Banu Harith bin Khazraj. I became ill and my hair fell out, then it grew back and became abundant. My mother Umm Ruman came to me while I was on an Urjuhah with some of my friends, and called for me. When I got my breath back, she took some water and wiped my face and head, and led me into the house. There were some of women of the Ansar inside the house, and they said: ‘With the blessings and good fortune (from Allah).’ (My mother) handed me over to them and they tidied me up. And suddenly I saw the Messenger of Allah in the morning. And she handed me over to him, and I was at that time, nine years old.”

[Sunan Ibn Majah 1876]

 

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'A'isha reported Allah's Messenger having said:

I saw you in a dream for three nights when an angel brought you to me in a silk cloth and he said: Here is your wife, and when I removed (the cloth) from your face, lo, it was yourself, so I said: If this is from Allah, let Him carry it out.

Reference : Sahih Muslim 2438a

In-book reference : Book 44, Hadith 113

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 31, Hadith 5977

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Narrated Abu Wail:

When `Ali sent `Ammar and Al-Hasan to (the people of) Kufa to urge them to fight, `Ammar addressed them saying, "I know that she (i.e. `Aisha) is the wife of the Prophet in this world and in the Hereafter (world to come), but Allah has put you to test, whether you will follow Him (i.e. Allah) or her."

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 3772

In-book reference : Book 62, Hadith 117

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 5, Book 57, Hadith 116

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Narrated Abu Wail:

`Ammar stood on the pulpit at Kufa and mentioned `Aisha and her coming (to Busra) and said, "She is the wife of your Prophet in this world and in the Hereafter, but you people are being put to test in this issue."

Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 7101

In-book reference : Book 92, Hadith 52

USC-MSA web (English) reference : Vol. 9, Book 88, Hadith 221

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Notes.

[1] Ahadith is actually the Arabic for plural for the Hadith but in English we are more familiar with using the letter s on the after the word.

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